Online dating is getting more popular every day. It is hard to find someone who has never created a profile on a dating site, at least out of curiosity.
It’s convenient. You chat when you have time and mood. Such sites allow you to get acquainted with people you would hardly meet in real life, and it is useful. Dating sites allow you to find traveling companions and even business partners.
There are enough skeptics who do not believe in the effectiveness of online dating, too.
Which of them is right? Those who search and get acquainted or those who think that it is impossible to meet a worthy partner online? We will help you to find out if it is real to meet a normal person on a dating site.
First of all, you should understand that the concept of normality is different for everyone. For some people it is normal to meet without obligation and every night to attend parties. For others it is normal to be in a serious relationship, to grow and develop together, to build a family. Some people will be comfortable with a housewife, for some it is ideal to be a careerist. There are women for whom a man is an alcoholic and a gambler is normal. Therefore, it is important to determine the purpose of the search.
Think about what kind of relationship you want. Draw a portrait of your future partner in your mind. What traits are important, what shortcomings you can tolerate, and what are unacceptable. Decide what “normality” means to you.
By the way, as soon as you fix in your head an approximate image and character of the future half, such users and start to meet on the site. Check it out!
Secondly, if you are on one of the dating sites (or thinking about creating a profile), there is someone of your acquaintances, it means that at least two normal people have already met online. Yes, about 10 years ago there were “nothing to do”, unemployed people, lazy people, albums and those who couldn’t get to know each other in real life. The situation has changed in the last few years. Now dating applications are installed by busy people who do not have time and opportunity to look for a couple in the real world.
Business and successful, enthusiastic about work, self-development and sports do not find the strength and time to regularly get acquainted in person, so go to sites with the hope to meet like-minded people and create a family. Working is great, but I want someone to wait at home.